*BETWEEN ASKING AND BEGGING*
(The begging and giving nations and individuals)
*"The man who knows how to ask today always get better to a beggar."* Ogapatapata.com
I know a man who can ask and you'd find him difficult to resist. I also know this man to be a giver, and you'd find it difficult to turn down his offer. Yet, there's Ebi, who's made himself a perpetual beggar, who regularly gets rebuffed. Suffice to note that the few times he gets, he got stipends that has stripped him to a state of zero to no respect amongst his peers, family and friends. He's best described as ungrateful.
*DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN ASKING AND BEGGING TO BE THE DIFFERENTIAL*
- A beggar comes with self-pity, whereas the man who ask comes with grace.
- A beggar has never invested, so he seeks through manipulation. But the man who knows how to ask, relies on his past investments and generosity and approaches his benefactor with grace.
- A beggar often gets with insults and relegation. Whereas, the man who knows how to ask gets with respect, honour and appreciation.
- A beggar approaches God begging blatantly disobedient to God's commandment to *"ask and you shall be given"*. Whereas the man who knows how to ask God, does so undeserving.
*HOW TO ASK - WHY STOP BEGGING*
I have decided not to speak more on begging because the outcome from begging are negativity as follows:
- *Abuse*
- *Relegation*
- *Demeaning*
- *Disgrace*
- *Shame*
- *Pain - sorrow*
- *Loss of self-esteem*
Those of you suffering from any or all of the above is traceable to the likelihood of begging.
*"Men may pity beggars but they don't respect beggars. "*
Follow these next steps to know how to ask and stop begging:
1. Know that no one owes you.
2. Do away with entitlement mentality .
3. Be a giver.
4. Be a earner
5. Be ashamed when it comes to begging.
6. Always return what you took and promised to return on schedule.
7. Be grateful for every kindness shown you.
8. Dress up the way you want to be addressed.
9. Learn to say no to some gifts and free offers.
10. Stop bothering others with your problems. So that when the time comes for you to ask, it'd take them by surprise.
*FINAL THOUGHTS FROM JESUS CHRIST*
*"Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you...Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets."* - Matthew 7:7, 12.
Live begging and you'd be given the beggars treatment. On the other hand, live gracefully asking, and receive the royal treatment. This is begging nations and individuals are poor and constantly dependent on rich and giving nations and individuals.
*DON'T LET BEGGING DEFINE YOU, BECAUSE IT WOULD WRECK YOU. LEARN TO ASK*
I remain a lone voice crying in this wilderness.
*Arc. Solomon Okpa* - 08034748093
*Author* : Dynamism of Discovery
*Grab your ecopy via this link below*
https://wfm.ogapatapata.com/product/dynamism-of-discovery/ *BETWEEN ASKING AND BEGGING*
(The begging and giving nations and individuals)
*"The man who knows how to ask today always get better to a beggar."* Ogapatapata.com
I know a man who can ask and you'd find him difficult to resist. I also know this man to be a giver, and you'd find it difficult to turn down his offer. Yet, there's Ebi, who's made himself a perpetual beggar, who regularly gets rebuffed. Suffice to note that the few times he gets, he got stipends that has stripped him to a state of zero to no respect amongst his peers, family and friends. He's best described as ungrateful.
*DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN ASKING AND BEGGING TO BE THE DIFFERENTIAL*
- A beggar comes with self-pity, whereas the man who ask comes with grace.
- A beggar has never invested, so he seeks through manipulation. But the man who knows how to ask, relies on his past investments and generosity and approaches his benefactor with grace.
- A beggar often gets with insults and relegation. Whereas, the man who knows how to ask gets with respect, honour and appreciation.
- A beggar approaches God begging blatantly disobedient to God's commandment to *"ask and you shall be given"*. Whereas the man who knows how to ask God, does so undeserving.
*HOW TO ASK - WHY STOP BEGGING*
I have decided not to speak more on begging because the outcome from begging are negativity as follows:
- *Abuse*
- *Relegation*
- *Demeaning*
- *Disgrace*
- *Shame*
- *Pain - sorrow*
- *Loss of self-esteem*
Those of you suffering from any or all of the above is traceable to the likelihood of begging.
*"Men may pity beggars but they don't respect beggars. "*
Follow these next steps to know how to ask and stop begging:
1. Know that no one owes you.
2. Do away with entitlement mentality .
3. Be a giver.
4. Be a earner
5. Be ashamed when it comes to begging.
6. Always return what you took and promised to return on schedule.
7. Be grateful for every kindness shown you.
8. Dress up the way you want to be addressed.
9. Learn to say no to some gifts and free offers.
10. Stop bothering others with your problems. So that when the time comes for you to ask, it'd take them by surprise.
*FINAL THOUGHTS FROM JESUS CHRIST*
*"Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you...Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets."* - Matthew 7:7, 12.
Live begging and you'd be given the beggars treatment. On the other hand, live gracefully asking, and receive the royal treatment. This is begging nations and individuals are poor and constantly dependent on rich and giving nations and individuals.
*DON'T LET BEGGING DEFINE YOU, BECAUSE IT WOULD WRECK YOU. LEARN TO ASK*
I remain a lone voice crying in this wilderness.
*Arc. Solomon Okpa* - 08034748093
*Author* : Dynamism of Discovery
*Grab your ecopy via this link below*
https://wfm.ogapatapata.com/product/dynamism-of-discovery/