When I was much younger, I wanted to become a cardiothoracic surgeon.

Big name, right? I know.

Today, I'm playing the role but not in the medical field.

On Saturday during my book launch, I shared this story and how 'hearts' became my nickname.

Why am I sharing this?

As women, there's a required level of intentionality that is required to live a life of potential, irrespective of what you have given in life.

Find out more in my new book, She Gave Without Losing Herself

Find out how you can start giving your time, energy, and resources from a place of awareness and intentionality.

Stop giving until you are empty!

https://selar.com/v5p22oo355

Story story...


Those who know me closely know me as Joy-Hearts, what they may not know is how 'Hearts' became my nickname?

It's one of the stories that inspired my new book 'She Gave Without Losing Herself.'

And did you know that book is launching this Saturday,
Yes 25th, as in my birthday?

Come and hear the full gist,
Save your seat now.

Click the link to attend, I look forward to celebrating with you.

https://lnkd.in/exfpP7aw

The "Quiet Observation"

I’ve been spending a bit more time observing the education space from the 'outside' lately, and it is important to note that while we talk about AI and tech tools, the real gap is still the human connection in learning.

With over a decade of teaching and training teachers to improve learning outcomes for learners, it taught me that technology only works when the 'why' is clear. Is it just me or does it feel like we're rushing the 'how' before we've mastered the 'who'?

Learning is a social and emotional process, this truth has been echoed again and again by an expert voice in the field of Socio-Emotional Learning (SEL) Rhoda Odigboh
If a teacher doesn't feel empowered (the who), even the most expensive AI/tech tools (the how) will just sit on a shelf or will not function at maximum capacity.

Mastering the 'Who' before the 'How' is important for tech-first education, which is a direction our educational realm in this nation is pivoting towards.

We must understand the psychology of the learner and the capacity of the educator before we herald this kind of learning especially in public schools, and this is a call for Empathy-Led Design in our curriculum and the tools used in the classroom.

I thought I understood patience,
Motherhood showed me patience that grows with every question, every tear and every hug.

I thought I knew what sacrifice looked like,
Motherhood showed me how willingly a heart can give everything for someone else.

I thought strength was about never breaking,
Motherhood showed me strength is loving fiercely even on the days you feel exhausted.🏼

I thought I knew what it meant to care for someone,
Motherhood showed me a heart that beats for another life every single day.

I thought sacrifice meant giving up something important,
Motherhood showed me that giving for your child somehow fills your heart even more.

Happy Mother's Day to Mothers, from a young Mum of 2 young Men.

What is one thing motherhood has taught you about yourself?

#happymothersday
#happymothersday2026

I almost didn't post this, I wanted it to be a perfect read for you.
Then I remembered that the 'ones' we almost didn't share, have the most impact.
Every Woman...(Body) needs to see this, be kind enough to share for others.
Give your 'Share'


https://www.linkedin.com/posts/joyndukwu_i-almost-didnt-post-this-i-wanted-it-to-activity-7438153630509211648-P1cw?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop&rcm=ACoAACi-ZHABzgyKrQuxw7UiVi0WCEYKuIAq-6I

Downtime Isn’t Lazy—It’s Strategic!

You’ve heard it before: “Work hard, play hard.”

But how often do we actually give ourselves permission to rest?

These days, in education, tech, parenting or even running a business,
* Productivity is praised.
* Burnout is normalized.
* And rest? Often overlooked.

As a Virtual Assistant, EdTech Enthusiast and Individual Capacity Building Advocate, I’ve supported high-performing professionals—and been one myself—who run on empty, chasing performance.

But here’s what I’m learning (and re-learning):
* Rest is a performance tool.
* Stillness creates clarity.
* Play unlocks creative flow.

In EdTech, parenting, business, or even childhood learning, we thrive not just by doing more, but by doing what matters most—with intention.

Rest is not what we escape to—it's part of how we show up better.

What’s one way you build in rest or play during your week?
Let’s share in the comments and normalize intentional rest.

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REST is strategic!

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The average business owner spends hours each week on administrative tasks. A virtual assistant takes those tasks off your plate, freeing up your time to focus on growing your business.

Additionally, Businesses can save up costs by hiring a VA for tasks that eat away at their time.

With my newly acquired skills as a professional VA from Digital Exchange Academy - DEXA I’m ready to help you streamline your business operations and boost your productivity.

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I’m here to provide reliable and efficient virtual assistant services tailored to your needs.

Let’s connect and discuss how I can support your business goals!

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