*ABUSED🙋🏿* _"30 feared dead, 100 injured in Borno as female suicide bombers hit wedding, funeral"_ *Vanguard, June 30, 2024.* I woke up with the words *"abused"*, little did I know that the headline regularly shared by a renowned journalist would carry the quoted heading above. *" ....Female suicide bombers hit wedding, funerals"* One of the greatest evil on earth today is abuse. It's historical, secular, religious and genetically transmitted. An escapee from slavery, Henry Box Brown, said; *"if you have never been deprived of your liberty, as I was, you cannot realize the power of that hope of freedom, which was to me indeed, an anchor to the soul both sure and steadfast."* The box in which Brown was shipped was 3 by 2.67 by 2 feet (0.91 by 0.81 by 0.61 m), the trip began on March 29, 1849, was transported by wagon, railroad, steamboat, wagon again, railroad, ferry, railroad, and finally delivery wagon, being completed in 27 hours. That's what 33 years of abuse could lead to 📌 *ABUSERS* One of the common identity of abusers is bullying. Those who use their advantages like beauty, height, strength 🦾 knowledge, money, spouses, family, race, offices, titles, affiliations and many of such. Anytime you use your advantage to oppress others, that's an act of abuse and you're an abuser📌 *"To control a people starve them"* The Russian villain Joseph Sterling was accorded that statement and historically it has been used by political, secular and religious leaders to abuse their subjects. Abusers may be your parents, spouses, children, friends, colleagues, acquaintances and close relatives. They deprive you basics like food that you should eat, clothes to wear, good shelter and expression - they shut you up and prevent you from speaking 🗣️ Others could be affection, physical assaults and public disgrace and deprivation. The sole motive is to control you and to instill in you fear, timidity, the loss of confidence and doubt of sanity - you start acting foolishly and like an idiot. You're transported back to the realm of a child - that era when your dos and don'ts are controlled by your parents due to your ignorance and vulnerability🚸 *THE ABUSED* The abused often end at the point of realization a tyrant, abuser and suicidal. And if they fail to realize they remain foolish, stupid and idiotic 😭 Some of today's irrates are products of abusive relationships. A woman cried out from an abusive relationship, while attending a training: "My life has experienced complete metamorphosis ‼️. I was receiving the training in pains as a result of Cesarian Operation of my twin babies. My husband has been abusing me both physically, emotionally and spiritually since 2017 but the Master class I enrolled in transformed him.He has learnt some cooking skills seeing that I i was totally concentrated with the training even in pains.One night, he saw Ogapatapata's message about most men that beat and enslave their wives, because of poverty, it touched my husband that he started crying and asking me for forgiveness.He volunteered to take care of my kids while I concentrated more on Ogapatapata's training.My four year old son now calls me madam Ogapatapata because my husband told him that Ogapatapata is mum's brother." *STEPS TO OVERCOME ABUSE - IDENTIFICATION MARKS & RESPONSE TO ABUSE* 1. Identify oppressive - oppressors and suppressive - suppressors as abusers. 2. Know that deprivation of your rights, imposition of conducts, rules and obligations are likely abuse. 3. Repeated insults, assaults, battering and beating are abuse. 4. Touching your bodies without your permission are abusive behavior. Like sexual advances. 5. Husbands and wives, depriving themselves are actually acting abusively. 6. Children taking advantage of their parents or parents doing same, are acting abusively. 7. Cry out when you feel abuse. Go to your local authorities and or trusted allies for help. 8. Tell those trying to abuse you to stop it - don't tolerate abuse by keeping quiet 📌 9. Stop traits of abuse manifesting in your life 10. Pray, talk to God for wisdom to manage abuse, abusers and abusive behaviors📌 *IF YOU KEEP QUIET* 1. You could loose value of life and like many others become suicidal and commit suicide. 2. You'd loose your sanity and go mad 😡 3. You would end a villain, wicked and heartless. Most criminals and wicked people on earth today are products of abuse. 4. You'd raise up the next generation of abusive men and women. Those who can go at any length to steal, kill and exterminate others. 5. You become a threat to yourself and human race - today humans live under the threats of nuclear holocaust because of abusive leaders. 6. You become heartless, the loss of humanity where you don't feel the pains of other, your subject and followers. A lot of countries have such leaders and many secular and religious leaders on earth today are abusive. *CHECK YOURSELF OUT* You'd trace the bulk of the problems in your life, around you, your family, homes, in your religion, countries and the world to abuse as majority keeps making the historical mistakes - KEEPING QUIET AND LOOKING AWAY FROM ABUSE. Enthralling the saying; *"Evil and wicked people thrives, when good people keep quiet📌"* I may not be a good person, but God has instructed me to cry out😭😭😭 join me to cry by stopping abusive behaviors and sharing this message today📍 From the staples of the lone voice crying in the wilderness - https://www.facebook.com/pg/A-Lone-Voice-Crying-in-the-Wilderness-2365223403711129/about/ Solomon Okpa - 08034748093 *Author: BUSINESS KILLERS* - https://wfm.ogapatapata.com/product/business-killers/